You've Been Lied To About Women
Everything you were told about dating was designed to make you easier to control. This is the reality behind female nature, and how you can win.
The Nice Guy Delusion
You were told to be kind. To be a gentlemen. Show your emotions. Be Soft. Safe.
You were told being a “good man” would make women want you.
But reality came knockin’, didn’t it?
Got ghosted. Maybe cheated on, if you know or not. You become her problem solver. Safety net. Her “best friend.” But did she ever chase you or desire you? Have you felt that before?
You watched her chase men who treated her like dirt. Men who made no effort. Men who simply didn’t care.
And yet everyone complains that dating in 2025 went down the shitter.
Here’s an uncomfortable truth to most people:
“Women don’t want what they say they want. They want a man who makes them feel something.”
Nice is forgettable, predictable, and replaceable.
If you want to win long term, you have got to stop trying to be what women ask for, and instead; give them what they respond to.
Female Nature Isn’t Evil, It’s Primal
You can’t hate what you don’t understand. And right now, between you and me, most men are playing a game they don’t even know exists.
Women are not broken, they are not evil. It’s in their hardwiring, (hence, the name), and yes… they are ruthless in how they select a mate.
They are designed for survival, for advantage, for the infamous Hypergamy.
That means a few things:
She will leave the relationship if your value drops.
She will test your emotional strength constantly.
She will hide her nature under sweet words (remember Adam and Eve?)
And if you keep playing the good wittle boyfriend or Husband, She’ll lose all attraction and respect for you. All the while, she’s telling yourself you’re just not that guy. They can smell weakness from a mile away fellas.
You can be her Fantasy or you can be her Fallback. In most cases, it cannot be both unless your emotional strength is rock solid.
The Game Isn’t Broken, It’s Rigged
Men everywhere today are being handed an outdate rulebook that’s designed to emasculate them. Be vulnerable. Be emotionally available. Give your heart. Be her rock.
You do all that and what happens? Dries up. Checks out. She starts wanting to find a guy that makes her feel excited, anxious, and confused all at the same time.
You were sold a fairytale to keep you compliant.
Here’s the funny part:
She doesn’t even Respect the men who follow the script.
She rewards the men who break it. The ones who “just gets it” and sees through the bullshit. The ones who truly understand her nature.
The Modern Advantage
You see, powerful men don’t “chase” women. They create gravitational pulls, like the moon and the sun.
They become so valuable, so magnetic, so centered in themselves that women come to them.
This isn’t about money, height, jawline, or “high status” (high status in a woman’s brain is far different than yours). It’s Energy. It’s Frame, as they call it.
Frame is your dominance women are looking for. Your refusal to be moved or to conform. Frame is your ability to create a world women want to enter and and submit to.
If she can move your emotions, she owns you. If she can test you and break you, she loses all attraction, layer by layer.
The frame you start with is the frame you’re stuck with
Control your frame, and you sir control the game.
My Goal for Hardwird
This is a redacted set of master files on reality. Tried and true experience. A birds-eye view of the psychological warfare happening between men and women.
Inside, you’ll begin to understand:
The cold hard truths on attraction, seduction, and male/female nature
How to actually act (authentically of course - she’ll catch that shit if you’re not being real about it) around her to get her obsessed and falling for you
How to be the man women fantasize about, but rarely get to keep (or can they?)
How to change your frame, rewire your mindset, and build power in silence. Like God wants you to.
We go deep. We get real. And we will do it without apology.
So Who Is This For?
For men who are sick and tired of being ghosted, friend-zoned, and disrespected.
Men who want to dominate in their dating life, without selling their souls.
Men who want respect, sex, and control on their terms. Which women want anyways.
And Who Is This Not For?
Men who think being nice and respectful is a “flex”
Men who still think women want stability over stimulation
Men looking for a safe space to talk about feelings
Men who chase, beg, or emotionally bleed just to get laid
So What’s Next, What Do I Expect?
This is your line in the sand. The final straw that broke the Camels back. You can keep playing her game and get slowly destroyed over time. Or, you learn to beat her at her own game to finally start getting the respect and desire you’ve been wanting your whole life.
How Will This Newsletter Work?
As a freeloader or a subscriber, you get:
1-2 drops per week, with basic breakdowns on why relationships and marriages fail. Why dating is considered “cooked” and why men and women are more disconnected than ever.
As a paid subscriber however, you get:
Deep dives on my personal experiences with women and other men no different than you experienced that I know you’ve gone through too.
Playbooks, Google Docs here and there, on how to meet, sleep, and retain women. The right way. Not the way society brainwashed you into believing.
You won’t find this level of clarity and dominance anywhere else. Believe me i’ve tried.
And if you truly want 1 on 1 help to completely change your dating life and become the dangerous man God wanted you to be, then you can sign up for Hardwird Private access. Think of me as being your personal wingman and consultant that’ll give you a personalized strategy to become the man women desire and obsess over, whenever you need it. You won’t look, talk, feel, or act like the man you were before.
My Final Word To You
You were never meant to play this game with your hands tied behind your back getting your shit kicked in. You were never meant to chase, beg, or hope.
You were meant to become the man who gets chosen without effort.
Not by luck. By design.
And that design starts here.
HARDWIRD is not content. It’s not dating advice. It’s a new identity, waiting for you to step into it.
Read this in silence. Move with intent and power. She will never see it coming.
If you’re ready to take a bet on yourself and change the course of your life forever, then it’s time to make your decision.
Join Hardwird Today
P.S. Until next time, please take care of yourself brother and I will talk to you soon. There will be light at the end of the tunnel, i assure you.