The Real Reason Women Don't Respect You

It's not looks, money, or status - it's the silent addiction that is making you miserable

Let’s cut the bullshit fellas.

You think women don’t notice shit? They do.

They can see it in your eyes. The dullness. The laziness, the way you carry yourself like you’re half checked out on life. The fake confidence you try to emulate because Red pill told you to.

Give me a fuckin’ break.

Deep down you know you’re not the man you pretend to be or wish you could be if you really tried.

Because, for most men:

Porn is their quiet poverty

It bankrupts your energy, your drive, and all of your chances with women. It damn near destroys your soul and your hunger that women instinctively look for you.

You can’t fake desire when your body is already emptied out in front of a screen or a rag.

Having your nervous system fried by endless dopamine doesn’t help you either.

Hense why women can feel it when you open your month (which results in rejection, i know).

The New Poverty

Poverty isn’t just about money anymore.

You can walk around with an iPhone 15 in your pocket, airpods in your ears, a Netflix subscription, and food delivered to your door or the office in 30 minutes - and yet still be broke in the ways that actually matter.

Broke in attention.

Vigor. Willpower. Energy. Or what my dad liked to call Piss and Vinegar.

Porn creates a form of spiritual bankruptcy most men don’t even realize they’re living in.

You’re always telling yourself it’s harmless. It’s just a release. Come on man, really?

Let me explain something:

• Every time you open that tab, you trade long term strength for short-term numbness

• Every orgasm on a screen is an orgasm stolen from your future with a real woman who loves you

• Every dopamine spike makes you weaker, needier, and less capable of sparking real attraction in women. Regardless of what any red pill, black pill, pua guru peddles you with

This is why so many men can’t get laid. Not because they’re ugly. Not because they’re broke. Not even because they’re a bit introverted.

It’s because they’ve flatlined their sexual energy. The very thing that women crave most.

Why Women Don’t Respect You

Here’s the thing:

Women don’t respect men who can’t control themselves. I know, crazy right?

If you can’t master your own impulses, why would she trust you to lead her through any hardship in life?

If you can’t generate a thirst for excitement without a screen, why would she feel anything around you?

If your “masculinity” only lives in your imagination, why would she submit to you in real life? Why do any of them have the nerve to do this? Save the “they have their own money and want to be strong independent women” bullshit for the other ratards of the world. Women deep down want a strong man to lead them whether some of them want to admit it or not.

See, Women are very intuitive. They notice micro-nuances in your behavior.

• The way your handshake is limp.

• The way your shoulders curve inward hunched over because you’re afraid to stand tall.

• The way your eyes dart in 5 different directions instead of holding peaceful eye contact

• Your voice even lacks bite. like that one dog from the movie Grown ups….

You know what I’m talkin’ about.

Porn kills those rough edges in you as a man. It sands you down into something “safe”, predictable, and non-threatening.

But attraction isn’t safe sometimes.

Respect isn’t given to men who look “safe”.

Respect is given to men who live fully in their own power. By being themselves to the very core.

The Hidden Cost of Cheap Pleasure

Porn is engineered to hijack your biology.

• Endless novelty

• Perfect angles

• Unrealistic moans

• An infinite stream of “new women” at your fingertips.

Your brain gets tricked into thinking you’ve done something meaningful in the world.

But what actually happened? Not a damn thing.

You’re alone. Your energy is gone. And your nervous system is completely cooked.

Now that you step into the real world:

• You stop pursuing real women because it feels “hard".

• You avoid rejection because you already rejected yourself by fapping to women you don’t even know

• And you feel socially anxious because you’ve rewired your brain to expect synthetic validation.

So you stay stuck. On repeat. Draining yourself in private, and yet you wonder why women don’t notice you in public.

Why You Can’t Get Laid (Even If You Try)

It has nothing to deal with approaching women. It has nothing to do with getting dates.

It has everything to do with your Magnetism.

This is part of why the blue pill and red pill dilemma started in the first place. Women can’t stand men who want her more than he wants himself. That’s lack of self-control. Women want men who radiate self-control, strong energy, and unapologetic direction.

When you live glued to Porn:

• You’re restless instead of grounded.

• You’re needy instead of confident.

• You’re desperate instead of selective.

Women can sniff out that energy from a mile away.

You might shower. You might dress well. You might even memorize those ghey as fuck pua lines.

But if your nervous system is fried, your eyes will tell the truth. And women will always trust your eyes over your words first.

The Red Pill, The Black Pill, and The Real Pill.

If you haven’t, I wrote about the pills before, you can check it out down below, but I’m going to continue to drive this point home:

Redpill, Bluepill, Blackpill, who gives a shit?

You’ll see men and women both screaming about the red pill - “women only care about looks, money and status”. You’ll see men drowning in the black pill - “it’s all genetics. If you’re not 6’4 with a jawline and perfect taint to butthole to ball ratio, you’re completely screwed.

Both are copes, even though that’s all the incels talk about is everyone else coping but them. The red pill guys externalize the blame. The black pill internalizes the pain of rejection and gives up entirely.

Such a relief

Take Responsibility. Build yourself into a man. Stop outsourcing your power to excuses, algorithms, or genetics. The truth is very simple: women respect energy. If you have it, they’ll feel it. If you don’t, then they don’t. Period. Porn robs you of that energy every single time. Now, here’s a couple of things you can do today to reclaim your energy over time. It’ll obviously not happen right away, just let time and persistence do it’s thing:

Step 1: Go on a Dopamine Detox

Cut the excess stimulation. Not just porn. Social Media. Junk Food. Scrolling. And no, you don’t have to biomaxx or productivitymaxx. One thing at a time.

Your nervous system is fried because you’re glued to this fucking phone.

When you stop, your baseline recalibrates. Suddenly, the world around you feels a bit sharper. Life around you gets better. You can pay attention more. And what the hell does that mean with women? Women notice when a man is fully present. That’s why every one talks about grounding.

Step 2: Reclaim Your Body

Lift a bit. Sprint. Or since everyone is harping on going to the gym now, just be active. Go hiking. Go fishing. Something. Move a bit like your ancestors did. Get that body looking good. No need to be Michelin man, or 5% bodyfat. Just look strong with some broad shoulders. Don’t do it for the gram, do it so you can feel good about yourself. Women will sense it without saying a word.

Step 3: Get Some Damn Sexual Discipline

Stop spilling your seed every night. Or every other night.

Instead, Transmute it. Channel it. Put it towards your work, your goals, your social circles, and women as well. The discipline creates pressure - and pressure creates power. So how can you expect women to respect men when you give all this energy away? They only respect the men who are disciplined.

Step 4: Develop Razor-Sharp Presence

Take the airpods out. Put the phone down. Speak slower. Breathe deeper. You can tell when Presence is magnetic. Most men right now are drifting through life like lumps of crap. Don’t. Talk to people. Not like a kiss ass. But At least speak like you enjoy your life and everything in it. That doesn’t come from ghey pick up lines. You have to train yourself to stay present in the moment.

Step 5: Lead With Purpose

Women don’t want to be your purpose. They want to join a man who already has one.

What are you building? Where are you going? Why should she follow you? If you can’t answer, then you are falling way behind right now.

Purpose and patience are the most attractive traits a man can have. It’s not cars, not watches, not six-packs. It’s direction and being 10 toes down.

The Final Word

To close this out, I truly think porn is the new poverty for men. It kills masculinity more than anything else. Societies conditional bullshit too, but we’ll get to that at another time.

Just know this:

You don’t need another “hack.”

You don’t need another “pill.”

You need to take your balls back as a man.

Women will never respect weak men. They’re not evil to strong men. Only weak ones. And women sure as fuck don’t obsess over men who live in their own heads all the time.

But when you detox from porn, rebuild your body, develop some sexual discipline, sharpen your presence, and lead with purpose - you can become the man they can’t stop thinking about.

And that’s the difference between begging for attention…and having women compete for yours.

Something to think about.