Let’s cut the bullshit fellas.

You think women don’t notice shit? They do.

They can see it in your eyes. The dullness. The laziness, the way you carry yourself like you’re half checked out on life. The fake confidence you try to emulate because Red pill told you to.

Give me a fuckin’ break.

Deep down you know you’re not the man you pretend to be or wish you could be if you really tried.

Because, for most men:

Porn is their quiet poverty

It bankrupts your energy, your drive, and all of your chances with women. It damn near destroys your soul and your hunger that women instinctively look for you.

You can’t fake desire when your body is already emptied out in front of a screen or a rag.

Having your nervous system fried by endless dopamine doesn’t help you either.

Hense why women can feel it when you open your month (which results in rejection, i know).

The New Poverty

Poverty isn’t just about money anymore.

You can walk around with an iPhone 15 in your pocket, airpods in your ears, a Netflix subscription, and food delivered to your door or the office in 30 minutes - and yet still be broke in the ways that actually matter.

Broke in attention.

Vigor. Willpower. Energy. Or what my dad liked to call Piss and Vinegar.

Porn creates a form of spiritual bankruptcy most men don’t even realize they’re living in.

You’re always telling yourself it’s harmless. It’s just a release. Come on man, really?

Let me explain something:

• Every time you open that tab, you trade long term strength for short-term numbness

• Every orgasm on a screen is an orgasm stolen from your future with a real woman who loves you

• Every dopamine spike makes you weaker, needier, and less capable of sparking real attraction in women. Regardless of what any red pill, black pill, pua guru peddles you with

This is why so many men can’t get laid. Not because they’re ugly. Not because they’re broke. Not even because they’re a bit introverted.

It’s because they’ve flatlined their sexual energy. The very thing that women crave most.

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Why Women Don’t Respect You

Here’s the thing:

Women don’t respect men who can’t control themselves. I know, crazy right?

If you can’t master your own impulses, why would she trust you to lead her through any hardship in life?

If you can’t generate a thirst for excitement without a screen, why would she feel anything around you?

If your “masculinity” only lives in your imagination, why would she submit to you in real life? Why do any of them have the nerve to do this? Save the “they have their own money and want to be strong independent women” bullshit for the other ratards of the world. Women deep down want a strong man to lead them whether some of them want to admit it or not.

See, Women are very intuitive. They notice micro-nuances in your behavior.

• The way your handshake is limp.

• The way your shoulders curve inward hunched over because you’re afraid to stand tall.

• The way your eyes dart in 5 different directions instead of holding peaceful eye contact

• Your voice even lacks bite. like that one dog from the movie Grown ups….

You know what I’m talkin’ about.

Porn kills those rough edges in you as a man. It sands you down into something “safe”, predictable, and non-threatening.

But attraction isn’t safe sometimes.

Respect isn’t given to men who look “safe”.

Respect is given to men who live fully in their own power. By being themselves to the very core.

The Hidden Cost of Cheap Pleasure

Porn is engineered to hijack your biology.

• Endless novelty

• Perfect angles

• Unrealistic moans

• An infinite stream of “new women” at your fingertips.

Your brain gets tricked into thinking you’ve done something meaningful in the world.

But what actually happened? Not a damn thing.

You’re alone. Your energy is gone. And your nervous system is completely cooked.

Now that you step into the real world:

• You stop pursuing real women because it feels “hard".

• You avoid rejection because you already rejected yourself by fapping to women you don’t even know

• And you feel socially anxious because you’ve rewired your brain to expect synthetic validation.

So you stay stuck. On repeat. Draining yourself in private, and yet you wonder why women don’t notice you in public.

Why You Can’t Get Laid (Even If You Try)

It has nothing to deal with approaching women. It has nothing to do with getting dates.

It has everything to do with your Magnetism.

This is part of why the blue pill and red pill dilemma started in the first place. Women can’t stand men who want her more than he wants himself. That’s lack of self-control. Women want men who radiate self-control, strong energy, and unapologetic direction.

When you live glued to Porn:

• You’re restless instead of grounded.

• You’re needy instead of confident.

• You’re desperate instead of selective.

Women can sniff out that energy from a mile away.

You might shower. You might dress well. You might even memorize those ghey as fuck pua lines.

But if your nervous system is fried, your eyes will tell the truth. And women will always trust your eyes over your words first.

The Red Pill, The Black Pill, and The Real Pill.

If you haven’t, I wrote about the pills before, you can check it out down below, but I’m going to continue to drive this point home:

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You’ll see men and women both screaming about the red pill - “women only care about looks, money and status”. You’ll see men drowning in the black pill - “it’s all genetics. If you’re not 6’4 with a jawline and perfect taint to butthole to ball ratio, you’re completely screwed.

Both are copes, even though that’s all the incels talk about is everyone else coping but them. The red pill guys externalize the blame. The black pill internalizes the pain of rejection and gives up entirely.

Take Responsibility. Build yourself into a man. Stop outsourcing your power to excuses, algorithms, or genetics. The truth is very simple: women respect energy. If you have it, they’ll feel it. If you don’t, then they don’t. Period. Porn robs you of that energy every single time. Now, here’s a couple of things you can do today to reclaim your energy over time. It’ll obviously not happen right away, just let time and persistence do it’s thing:

Step 1: Go on a Dopamine Detox

Cut the excess stimulation. Not just porn. Social Media. Junk Food. Scrolling. And no, you don’t have to biomaxx or productivitymaxx. One thing at a time.

Your nervous system is fried because you’re glued to this fucking phone.

When you stop, your baseline recalibrates. Suddenly, the world around you feels a bit sharper. Life around you gets better. You can pay attention more. And what the hell does that mean with women? Women notice when a man is fully present. That’s why every one talks about grounding.

Step 2: Reclaim Your Body

Lift a bit. Sprint. Or since everyone is harping on going to the gym now, just be active. Go hiking. Go fishing. Something. Move a bit like your ancestors did. Get that body looking good. No need to be Michelin man, or 5% bodyfat. Just look strong with some broad shoulders. Don’t do it for the gram, do it so you can feel good about yourself. Women will sense it without saying a word.

Step 3: Get Some Damn Sexual Discipline

Stop spilling your seed every night. Or every other night.

Instead, Transmute it. Channel it. Put it towards your work, your goals, your social circles, and women as well. The discipline creates pressure - and pressure creates power. So how can you expect women to respect men when you give all this energy away? They only respect the men who are disciplined.

Step 4: Develop Razor-Sharp Presence

Take the airpods out. Put the phone down. Speak slower. Breathe deeper. You can tell when Presence is magnetic. Most men right now are drifting through life like lumps of crap. Don’t. Talk to people. Not like a kiss ass. But At least speak like you enjoy your life and everything in it. That doesn’t come from ghey pick up lines. You have to train yourself to stay present in the moment.

Step 5: Lead With Purpose

Women don’t want to be your purpose. They want to join a man who already has one.

What are you building? Where are you going? Why should she follow you? If you can’t answer, then you are falling way behind right now.

Purpose and patience are the most attractive traits a man can have. It’s not cars, not watches, not six-packs. It’s direction and being 10 toes down.

The Final Word

To close this out, I truly think porn is the new poverty for men. It kills masculinity more than anything else. Societies conditional bullshit too, but we’ll get to that at another time.

Just know this:

You don’t need another “hack.”

You don’t need another “pill.”

You need to take your balls back as a man.

Women will never respect weak men. They’re not evil to strong men. Only weak ones. And women sure as fuck don’t obsess over men who live in their own heads all the time.

But when you detox from porn, rebuild your body, develop some sexual discipline, sharpen your presence, and lead with purpose - you can become the man they can’t stop thinking about.

And that’s the difference between begging for attention…and having women compete for yours.

Something to think about.

There’s a reason Ted Bundy knocked up and married a girl while on trial.

Incels will go straight to looks.

Red pill will say it’s Hybristophilia.

It’s more than that.

It’s because they tapped into something primal - something ancient - that most men are too nice(or too afraid) to touch:

Power. Mystery. Obsession.

Women don’t fall for killers and criminals because of what they do. They fall for them because of what they represent.

And if you’re smart, you don’t need to harm a soul or a fly to harness the same type of energy.

Let’s unpack the madness.

Women are Attracted to Power - Even the Illicit Kind.

I’d hate to kill the Disney fantasy for you, but i have to.

When a man commits violence or criminal acts, society recoils. But a part of the feminine psyche leans in.

Not consciously.

Not Morally.

But instinctually.

It’s because while women say they want safety, they crave Dangerous men who make them feel safe.

That’s the difference.

A man who is safe is boring.

A man who controls and manipulates danger is almost Godlike to her.

Power.

Power is magnetic. It bypasses logic. And in the mind of a woman who lives in a world of emotional signals:

power = survival + status

Ted Bundy had law students taking notes in the courtroom because of how in control he looked. Control of himself. Control of others. And control of the narrative.

He was articulate, calm, charming, and knew exactly how to command attention.

Sound familiar?

Good. That’s why women gravitate toward rockstars, mob bosses, and cult leaders. In a primitive, lizard-brain sort of way, these men Win.

And women want to be near the winner, even if he’s wearing an ankle monitor.

The Erotic Equation: Obsession = Mystery + Power

You won’t hear this from a therapist, but obsession isn’t built on “healthy communication.” at least, not to the women you’re dating.

It’s built on unresolved tension.

On the edge of danger. On the thrill of the unknown.

“ A woman doesn’t fall for a killer because he’s violent. She falls because he’s willing to go further than any man she’s ever met.”

That willingness radiates power.

Even if it’s toxic.

Even if it’s destructive.

Even if it ends in death.

Women don’t always want good men. They want men they can’t stop thinking about.

I’ll show you how you can be the man she can’t stop thinking about right here.

And criminals, for better or worse, live in their minds rent-free.

Taboo is a turn-on

Hence the reason why your ex liked being choked even though she had a pinterest board full of baby fit ideas.

Taboo is sexy to women.

Doing something that shouldn’t be done lights up the same reward center in the brain as winning the damn lottery. Falling for a criminal is the ultimate rebellion.

In other words:

It’s not just attraction. It’s addiction to rebellion.

Why Nice Men Get Ignored

The problem with most men today is simple.

They’re too fucking available.

Too agreeable. And too understandable.

They have no risk. No edge. No mystery.

Just Costco memberships and a mortgage.

If She can predict your next move, she’s already bored.

Meanwhile, every man who’s ever triggered obsession in women had an element of unpredictability. A refusal to comply. An aura of danger that felt like lust with a body count.

Disclaimer: this doesn’t mean you have to be a criminal, men.

But for fucks sake, you need to be captivating.

And that starts with understanding what keeps her awake at night.

Not logic.

Not compatibility.

But that primal, limbic-level fascination that makes her wonder:

“Who the hell is this man… and why can’t i stop thinking about him?”

Imagine being that guy for her.

The Harsh Truth:

These criminals aren’t winning in spite of their madness. They’re winning because of it.

In a weird concoction of biology and culture, what should disqualify a man from attraction actually signals strength, danger, and dominance - which, in the ancient brain, often means: Let’s mate.

Obviously, none of this is an endorsement of evil. You shouldn’t become a criminal to get girls(Though i bet that sentence just gave at least one lonely dude the worst business idea of all time).

But if you’re smart, and still reading, you can reverse-engineer this attraction into something powerful, legal, and dangerously magnetic.

So, ugh, WTF Can a Normal Man Like me Actually Do with This?

Here are 5 Steps to channel that serial killer charisma without becoming a criminal in the process:

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He didn’t even notice he was disappearing

It didn’t happen all at once you know.

Small, minimal, itty bitty things that compound over time. Whether it be family life, work life, relationships with women. It takes a toll on most men.

What’s happening to most men now?

They stop locking eyes with people. Stopped walking into rooms with their nuts hanging low. Laughed at things they didn’t think were funny. Slept with women who didn’t move them. Nod along to conversations that make their fuckin’ skin crawl. Most importantly, these men have lost all conviction in themselves.

Nobody paid close attention

Not their friends. Not their family. Not the girls. Or even themselves for that matter.

Just a slow erosion that turns men into tacky wallpaper in their own lives.

Modern life is soft. And it’s killing men quietly.

You don’t need a therapist to tell you something’s off. You feel it when you’re staring at your phone at 1AM, cycling through women you don’t care to message and regurgitated reels that get played over, and over, and over again.

You feel it in the job you don’t like. In the texts you’ll never send. You feel it when you see a man with unbreakable confidence and realize you haven’t had or seen that in Years.

They’ll call it depression, sure. But let’s face it. Men are glued to the fucking phones, which leads them to disconnect from reality. From their instincts, their edge, and even the standards and principals they set for themselves.

Remember, your thoughts will always manifest and turn into actions. those actions become habits. And those habits will lead to further enlightenment

There is no morning routine, supplement, self-help, and looksmaxxing routine that’s going to make women respect you again. You’ve been lied to.

Modern men are told to get softer, vulnerable, more agreeable. And yet, they get punished for it. While it’s true that women want men to listen, what they really want is a man that makes them feel something.

They want tension

They want unpredictability

They want their emotions led

But men can’t lead women because they can’t even lead themselves.

Look in the mirror and be Honest with yourself

When was the last time a woman giggled like a little schoolgirl around you?

When was the last time you walked into a room and people stopped like a deer in headlights?

When was the last time you actually felt good about yourself?

It has nothing to do with being an alpha.

It’s about feeling like a fuckin’ man again. In your body, in your voice, in your blood, your pores, and in your bones.

Start doing this now.

To change your life in a drastic way, it must start with taking baby steps. It’s not fake motivation. Just 3 things you can do today to stop being the wallpaper and start being the entire fuckin’ room.

1. Get off the damn phone for an hour or 2 straight.

No Podcasts

No Youtube shorts

Nothing. Just your head, the world, and your ballz.

Walk. Breathe. Let your mind sift through the dirt.

Most men today probably haven’t had a real thought pop up in their head for weeks.

2. Do something slightly dangerous, physical, or humiliating.

No i don’t mean jump in front of a car or harm anyone. I mean get out of your fucking comfort zone for once in your life and take a little risk. Do a really cold shower(cold plunges are ratarded).

Have a conversation with a complete stranger. You’d be surprised what it turns into. I’ve had a hello or a nod turn into an hour or two hour conversation.

Hell why don’t you play your favorite song in your head and dance to it out in public? By yourself? Because you don’t give a fuck?

Put yourself in a situation where you might fail. Where your nervous system has to wake the hell up.

Men are asleep at the wheel nowadays. Don’t be.

3. Say ‘no’ to something you’d usually say yes to.

Whether it’s a favor, a set of plans, or a girl. Pick one situation today where the old you would’ve hesitated or flinched. Say NO with conviction and confidence, without any explanation.

Every single time you say ‘yes’ to avoid discomfort, a part of your soul dies.

You have to start taking your power back even in the tiniest ways. Life is not the “Yes Man” movie (great movie). You can say yes to anything that actually benefits you and sets your soul on fire, sure. But learn when to say NO as well.

Become your own best friend first. Then everyone else will want to be your best friend.

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This past month has been a wild ride on twitter. Having to post content with a new identity and trying to put myself out there has been met with very staunch criticism and plenty of incels that love to comment and immediately block you without getting to put a word in. I welcome it. The more hate you can stomach, the better off you’ll be.

Yes, at some point, all men will go through some challenging times, however many are not taking these tough times the way they should. Rejection happens, it’s just a part of life. And men everywhere are taking it way too personal, especially with women. Let’s clear the air and work through this by talking about these superficial labels that men are hiding behind as a result. We’ll start with the obvious ones.

The Red Pill:

Ahh yes, the uncomfortable truth they never told you. Take it, and you see the world for what it is, right? Isn’t this what Morpheus told neo?

Well sort of, redpillers today over-exaggerate. They THINK they know female nature, but they really don’t.

“Women only care about looks money and status. They want 6ft tall men with 6 pack and a lambo.”

Okay, and you want a Victoria Secret model/Playboy bunny virgin who stays inside all day, stays loyal to you even if you act weak in front of her, and make you food while you fingerfuck yourself to video games. Sounds to me like BOTH standards are shots in the dark if you ask me.

I mean, the red pill isn’t completely wrong. It’s just a bit, incomplete.

What do they tell you? Get rich, get jacked, control your frame, hypergamy(they don’t even understand hypergamy), become a high value man like Andrew Tate.

Give me a fuckin’ break. You think most women really give two shits? They don’t. All a man needs to do is take care of himself. No need to go overkill with this looksmaxxing, moneymaxxing bullshit. Grandads with hands as swole as a silverback gorilla would laugh at this and proceed to smoke a malboro red right after.

Women will smell the fact that you did it all for them, and that’s when they take your ass to the cleaners and destroy your “legacy.” my fuckin god redpillers have men convinced they are all disappointing their “bloodline” bro they’re fuckin DEAD. GONE. They are now in the gas pump waiting to fuel me to my next destination. Yeah i said that. Fuck that. Call me egotistical, but nobody after me is going to spend my money the way i want it to be spent. So only I will have that money, and those around me can experience it with me. When I’m gone, I’m gone. I can’t take it with me.

All of that shit you should be doing for yourself anyways, not for women. Build your own world and live in your own world(doesn’t have to be $100 million world either For fucks sake you can live like a King for .5/100th of that).

Redpillers don’t get this, but attitude will always win in the end. They just hide behind materialistic things and call it high value(looks, money, and status to them) when that’s not what women find high value. Sorry, they lied to you. They need wealth for approval, instead of wealth for themselves. And yes women want to know that you arent going to end up in the fuckin street next week if you two have a child, big. fucking. deal. it’s how they’re hardwird, get the fuck over it. If you act weak with all of those look money status metrics, you’re just as fucked as the guy who doesn’t have any of it. But go ahead, calling women gold diggers makes you feel better. Do you put honey on your binky before you fall asleep at night big boy?

Next is the one they all hate the most:

The Blue Pill:

Oooooh baby the blue pill. the simp. “the nice guy” Live in blissful ignorance. Don’t face the truth. full ratard autist life, right?

“Just be yourself”

“you’ll find that special girl someday”

“Happy wife, happy life.”

Ahhhhhh the elephant in the room that is plaguing the dating market for the last half a century.

This is the path to the soulless and the spineless. Emotional service dogs. will wipe any womans ass on the planet if you let it roam free. you end up apologizing for enjoying a nice set of tits and a fat ass out in public, to not offend anyone, or always wanting to fondle your girl. So the result is to turn you into closet homosexualz. Cut your balls off, and throw them in the purse. Safe, polite, people pleaser. It’s a slow, wet, and neutered death. Living for women and others, not at all for himself. What a drug to wean yourself off of. This is emasculation at it’s finest.

Does this work? for some maybe, but mention this to anyone, and they’ll bring up family courts, ruining the “bloodline” and driving men to kill themselves in record numbers. Yeah, i fuckin get it. They’re not wrong, it’s fucked up no less. Many men have been utterly destroyed by women. But to say women are evil for it? Tell me, how can a woman be evil when the man she is dealing with is emotionally disintegrating? has no balls? Emotionally weak? Can’t think for himself? I mean i didn’t vote for women to act this way, and i did not create women. God the father did. If she’s looking for survival, a man that is emotionally weak is not a safe bet for her.

No wonder she grows resentment and contempt for men like this. You’re always kissing her ass and the only reason is for puss. Women are made to see if they can destroy you with it, and if they think they can get away with it after a man shows weakness, they will do their damnest to make it happen. Can’t fault them for it. Simps are essentially why women are running around like chickens with their heads cut off wondering where all the good men have gone. And society is brainwashing both sides at the same time. So fuck it, keep sleeping.

Which brings me to my favorite one:

The Blackpill:

Ahhhhhh the blackpill, the incels right?

Doomscrolled to complete shit. They honestly think dating women is humiliating. They expect a Victoria Secret model to show up in the basement while he’s yerkin it and expecting her to take his pain away. But no, only men with the adequate bone structure and eye to lip to mouth to butthole ballnut ratio get that, not them. no looks no puss. How fucking sad is that? They look at dating app stats and tell themselves, “nope, im fucked” Such a poor way of looking at it. At the end of the day they just have a shitty attitude and a poor personality. They’ll always argue against it, but they’re not willing to face failure and rejection over and over again until they get what they want and figure it the fuck out for themselves. Women are not that complicated to understand once you learn the basics and stop being so fuckin angry at them all the time.

All the pills are Larping. Complete horseshit. All of them. Red pill thinks they’re spartans. Blue pill thinks they’re a bunch of therapists who think boobies are bad to talk about. And black pill, They play Mopey Dick for real. Just picture a blue haired barista in Seattle Washington. Yeah, that’s right.

These pills were never meant to be your entire identity. It’s a metaphor just to soothe yourself. Being aware doesn’t mean you’re effective. Having knowledge doesn’t mean you have power. And calling women “low value” on twitter while your room smells like Axe shampoo and ball sweat doesn’t make you alpha and macho either.

At the end of the day, you’re still looking for someone to hand you meaning or to give you the magic pill. There is none. It’s a slave mentality in a different colored coat.

You’re not liberated. You’re addicted. To dopamine.

Addicted to being right. Addicted to pointing the finger at other people. Addicted to talking about the matrix or escaping the matrix, instead of saying “fuuuuuuuuuck the matrix i do what i want.”

The Solution:

Take none of these pills. F*ck the pill bottles. Build your own code in life, not societies. Part of being a man is not needing or depending on a colored ideology to tell him who to be.

He makes himself.

Of course it’s hard. it’s harder than watching endless red pill reaction videos. Harder than listening to your therapist tell you it’s your mother’s fault.

You want power? you want women to want you?

Turn off the screen. Go outside. Soak up the sun. Build a small business. Learn to remain emotionally strong against all odds. Do cool things, find cool hobbies. BE INTERESTING. Say no to shit that doesn’t align with you. Be dangerous and disciplined, don’t just be aware. Without giving a flying fuck about anyone else’s opinions but yours and yours alone.

Men create, they move, they act, and they decide unapologetically. Even if they have to lift a leg up and rip ass while they do it.

That’s what society doesn’t want. No awareness. No clever tweets. Sovereign men who don’t give a fuuuuuuuck.

Architects of their own reality, no one elses. So next time someone offers a pill.

Laugh in their face, walk away, and go make your own pill.

Next we’ll talk about the Male Loneliness and why it’s complete horseshit. You won’t want to miss it.

The Nice Guy Delusion

You were told to be kind. To be a gentlemen. Show your emotions. Be Soft. Safe.

You were told being a “good man” would make women want you.

But reality came knockin’, didn’t it?

Got ghosted. Maybe cheated on, if you know or not. You become her problem solver. Safety net. Her “best friend.” But did she ever chase you or desire you? Have you felt that before?

You watched her chase men who treated her like dirt. Men who made no effort. Men who simply didn’t care.

And yet everyone complains that dating in 2025 went down the shitter.

Here’s an uncomfortable truth to most people:

“Women don’t want what they say they want. They want a man who makes them feel something.”

Nice is forgettable, predictable, and replaceable.

If you want to win long term, you have got to stop trying to be what women ask for, and instead; give them what they respond to.

Female Nature Isn’t Evil, It’s Primal

You can’t hate what you don’t understand. And right now, between you and me, most men are playing a game they don’t even know exists.

Women are not broken, they are not evil. It’s in their hardwiring, (hence, the name), and yes… they are ruthless in how they select a mate.

They are designed for survival, for advantage, for the infamous Hypergamy.

That means a few things:

• She will leave the relationship if your value drops.

• She will test your emotional strength constantly.

• She will hide her nature under sweet words (remember Adam and Eve?)

And if you keep playing the good wittle boyfriend or Husband, She’ll lose all attraction and respect for you. All the while, she’s telling yourself you’re just not that guy. They can smell weakness from a mile away fellas.

You can be her Fantasy or you can be her Fallback. In most cases, it cannot be both unless your emotional strength is rock solid.

The Game Isn’t Broken, It’s Rigged

Men everywhere today are being handed an outdate rulebook that’s designed to emasculate them. Be vulnerable. Be emotionally available. Give your heart. Be her rock.

You do all that and what happens? Dries up. Checks out. She starts wanting to find a guy that makes her feel excited, anxious, and confused all at the same time.

You were sold a fairytale to keep you compliant.

Here’s the funny part:

She doesn’t even Respect the men who follow the script.

She rewards the men who break it. The ones who “just gets it” and sees through the bullshit. The ones who truly understand her nature.

The Modern Advantage

You see, powerful men don’t “chase” women. They create gravitational pulls, like the moon and the sun.

They become so valuable, so magnetic, so centered in themselves that women come to them.

This isn’t about money, height, jawline, or “high status” (high status in a woman’s brain is far different than yours). It’s Energy. It’s Frame, as they call it.

Frame is your dominance women are looking for. Your refusal to be moved or to conform. Frame is your ability to create a world women want to enter and and submit to.

If she can move your emotions, she owns you. If she can test you and break you, she loses all attraction, layer by layer.

The frame you start with is the frame you’re stuck with

Control your frame, and you sir control the game.

My Goal for Hardwird

This is a redacted set of master files on reality. Tried and true experience. A birds-eye view of the psychological warfare happening between men and women.

Inside, you’ll begin to understand:

• The cold hard truths on attraction, seduction, and male/female nature

• How to actually act (authentically of course - she’ll catch that shit if you’re not being real about it) around her to get her obsessed and falling for you

• How to be the man women fantasize about, but rarely get to keep (or can they?)

• How to change your frame, rewire your mindset, and build power in silence. Like God wants you to.

We go deep. We get real. And we will do it without apology.

So Who Is This For?

• For men who are sick and tired of being ghosted, friend-zoned, and disrespected.

• Men who want to dominate in their dating life, without selling their souls.

• Men who want respect, sex, and control on their terms. Which women want anyways.

And Who Is This Not For?

• Men who think being nice and respectful is a “flex”

• Men who still think women want stability over stimulation

• Men looking for a safe space to talk about feelings

• Men who chase, beg, or emotionally bleed just to get laid

So What’s Next, What Do I Expect?

This is your line in the sand. The final straw that broke the Camels back. You can keep playing her game and get slowly destroyed over time. Or, you learn to beat her at her own game to finally start getting the respect and desire you’ve been wanting your whole life.

How Will This Newsletter Work?

As a freeloader or a subscriber, you get:

• 1-2 drops per week, with basic breakdowns on why relationships and marriages fail. Why dating is considered “cooked” and why men and women are more disconnected than ever.

As a paid subscriber however, you get:

• Deep dives on my personal experiences with women and other men no different than you experienced that I know you’ve gone through too.

• Playbooks, Google Docs here and there, on how to meet, sleep, and retain women. The right way. Not the way society brainwashed you into believing.

You won’t find this level of clarity and dominance anywhere else. Believe me i’ve tried.

And if you truly want 1 on 1 help to completely change your dating life and become the dangerous man God wanted you to be, then you can sign up for Hardwird Private access. Think of me as being your personal wingman and consultant that’ll give you a personalized strategy to become the man women desire and obsess over, whenever you need it. You won’t look, talk, feel, or act like the man you were before.

My Final Word To You

You were never meant to play this game with your hands tied behind your back getting your shit kicked in. You were never meant to chase, beg, or hope.

You were meant to become the man who gets chosen without effort.

Not by luck. By design.

And that design starts here.

HARDWIRD is not content. It’s not dating advice. It’s a new identity, waiting for you to step into it.

Read this in silence. Move with intent and power. She will never see it coming.

If you’re ready to take a bet on yourself and change the course of your life forever, then it’s time to make your decision.

Join Hardwird Today

P.S. Until next time, please take care of yourself brother and I will talk to you soon. There will be light at the end of the tunnel, i assure you.